Why We all need a Love Army and a Three Step Process to Building and...
In Sade's 2010 single, "Soldier of Love", she shares she's doing her best. As a person who is also committed to doing his best, my devotion to friends and a few family members is how I strive and hold...
View ArticleAin’t I A Man: Being Black and Gay in a World that Honors Neither
About a week ago, an acquaintance invited me to a party with this preface: It's just for women and we will have a male stripper but you can come since your gay". I politely and shockingly declined. It...
View ArticleHow Gay and Straight Men Can Learn from Each Other and Build Great Relationships
I have spent far too much time treating my straight male friends like shit. When it comes to friendships with straight male counterparts, my assumptions are quick, limiting and in many cases wrong....
View ArticleHow to Handle the Middle Aged Hoax
My favorite and most valued gift by the aging process is a great big case of the "Fuck Its". At 15, 20 and even into my thirties there was a great deal of energy put into what people thought of me and...
View ArticleWhy We Should Cancel Pride Celebrations
Pride festivals for all of 2011 and beyond should be canceled. More important than hunky guys, displays of camp, and the all consuming focus on gay marriage, our young people need all of our time and...
View ArticleRules of Reality
Prologue: Rules of Reality America in 2050 was no longer about freedom. Americans had willingly traded freedom for constant surveillance and fear. What began immediately following 9/11 as a war on...
View ArticlePsst: Here’s the Secret for Eliminating All Stress in Your Life
For many years, I was awash in curiosity about sociopaths and their behavior. In my twenties, I jumped from one ill fated and doomed romance to another always stating these dumb ass responses for my...
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